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u/reddot_comic Finessed Impropriety 14h ago edited 11h ago

He was in the Air Force based out of Reno Nevada. He stationed in Afghanistan, Iraq and Iran. He’s been retired for a while now but I can ask him.

Edit: my dad wasn’t in Iran. I misspoke. He previously was stationed in Qatar. I fucked up on this and I’m sorry for any confusion. It’s been a long time but that’s not an excuse to not have my facts right.

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u/Chicken_Menudo 14h ago

Oh damn, didn't even think about Air Force. Probably wouldn't have crossed paths then.

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u/kittens_with_swords 13h ago

My dad was in the Air Force during that time as well, stationed in Oman though. He worked on repairs before and after war damage, specifically C-130s. Doubt they would’ve crossed paths, but who knows!

My father eventually got medically discharged and was 100% disabled veteran status until he passed away June 17, 2025 from service-related illness.

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u/reddot_comic Finessed Impropriety 10h ago

I’m so sorry for your loss. Are you ok?

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u/kittens_with_swords 10h ago

Thank you. And yeah, my mom and I are holding in there and doing alright. It’s been a tough year without him, though.

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u/Kinkajou1015 Comic Crossover 14h ago

This answered my burning question of did he ever get to come home and stay home. Panel 6 made me scared the end was going to be a coffin with the flag draped over it.

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u/reddot_comic Finessed Impropriety 14h ago

Oh god, I don’t think we could’ve survived that. I’m a total daddies girl. He came home and unharmed. We were very lucky in that regard.

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u/TrelanaSakuyo 11h ago

As a fellow daddy's girl, hold him tight and tell him you love him when you can. Have the conversations you keep putting off. I lost my dad earlier this year after a long health battle (not cancer for those wondering); I'm absolutely wrecked most days, and I was fully prepared for that day to come.

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u/FixFun1959 9h ago

As an Air Force vet as well from the GWOT era. I highly recommend just sitting and talking with him. Put your phone on voicemail memo and ask him about his service. Basic training, tech school. First duty station, 9/11, everything. His funnies stories and best memories. Even his worst memories.

My mom never talked to my grandfather who was a Korean War vet about his time in uniform, and we don’t know much about his service. I think he’d also be happy to share.

(If you haven’t done this already)

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u/-roachboy 1h ago

It's too bad the millions of Iraqis he was sent to help murder can't say the same about their families.

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u/Dry-Product-4387 5h ago

Very, very few Americans died in the GWOT compared to previous wars like Vietnam. In context more American military personnel died by cancers, heart problems, and other “natural causes” during those twenty years than died in combat.

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u/Kinkajou1015 Comic Crossover 4h ago

I know in comparison that America lost far fewer soldiers when compared to previous conflicts, but I also know that Dot is not one to shy away from using her comics as a form of therapy to get a traumatic/high stress out of her head entirely to share the emotions she feels in an effort to come to terms with whatever event. Such as when previous pet passed away.

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u/Feezec 13h ago

When were American troops in Iran in the 2000s?

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u/Pacifist_Socialist 13h ago

We weren't. Mistake or misremembering.

I don't think they took any prisoners. Maybe though. I know the Iranians held some US personnel briefly but I think they were .exe

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u/Low_discrepancy 4h ago

when you're in 70% of the middle east, memory can get fuzzy

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u/Chicken_Menudo 13h ago

U.S. troops weren't but I read that as his AOR dealt with Iran (e.g. maybe he was based out of Kurdistan).

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u/Chance-Ad-2256 10h ago

Theres a non zero chance my parents may have met your dad. I was born a few months after 9/11 on that base but i think they'd be living there for a few years at that point. Crazy to think about

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u/Cheesedoodlerrrr 12h ago

You should.

There is an absolutely ZERO percent chance he did any deployments to Iran.

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u/reddot_comic Finessed Impropriety 12h ago edited 11h ago

Yep, you’re right. Just talked to my dad. I misspoke and that’s my mistake. He was in Qatar. Sorry for the confusion.

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u/Mountain_carrier530 13h ago

If my memory serves me right, one of the Truckee cops was stationed at the base in Reno went he rotated from active to reserves for a bit. I could be mistaken and he was just at Beale the entire time until he transferred over to the Navy, but it would have been mid-2000s to early 2010s.

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u/devils_advocate24 12h ago

Ask him if he made it to Bagram before or after the air mobile burger king 😂

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u/Aaaabbbbccccccccc 8h ago

Glad he made it back in one piece. I was also a teen when this happened, left for boot camp the next year and did multiple deployments to the area.

I can’t fathom how hard that must have been for him after losing a child. Trauma stacked on top of trauma.

Never miss an opportunity to let him know how happy you are to still have him here. And if he hasn’t already, encourage him to try therapy. The generation ahead of me in service tended to stigmatize mental health services… but was seriously screws with your head. Some things didn’t hit me till over a decade later when my life had slowed down a bit and I had time to myself to think and process everything that happened.

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u/electriceric 7h ago

Non zero chance our dads met in Qatar or Iraq. Dad was pretty high up in the enlisted side of the SF (MP) world out of McChord AFB. Was gone a lot during the immediate aftermath as well.