r/ComicWriting • u/nmacaroni • 1h ago
Thick Skin Required to Write Comics (PSA)
We just had someone post this long ass post asking if people were going to steal their ideas (a common noob writer point of stress).
The poster got all bent out of shape about some quite direct and honest answers, all of which were helpful, not malevolent.
Anyway, point is, the OP got so upset and some very soft pushback, that they didn't just delete their post, but their entire reddit account. I can only assume it was a burner account, I didn't get a chance to see the history before they deleted it...
but here's a couple of points for everyone:
- If you want to write... especially in indie comics, it's an undertaking that literally puts your most personal self on display for the world to see. The very essence of writing is throwing your creativity into the public eye and scream "judge me."
If you start pitching a "detective cat comic", you're gonna get people who don't like cats responding to you. This is just life.
If you just started writing and throw out a sample of your writing with every rookie mistake, people are gonna call you out on it.
And then, in the end, even when you've been writing a million years, and publish your latest graphic novel. Negative people are just going to find the things they don't like about it and complain about it.
If you don't respond well to the good and the bad, you're not going to do well in writing. And believe me, people can be and will be cruel. Especially in indie comics, where so many failed creators want to see other creators fail so they can feel better about themselves.
2) If you take the time to post, leave it up. Even if you feel the advice is not exactly what you wanted. When people take the time out of their day to make a reply and you just delete the entire thing the next day because you don't like the responses, you're wasting folks time... and then double wasting folks time, because someone new may come to the subreddit a month later with the exact same question and the process starts all over again.
If you just leave your posts up, folks may take a second to search the subreddit and find the answers without a second round.
As you were.
Write on, write often!