r/comics Finessed Impropriety 15h ago

25 years ago today

28.9k Upvotes

1.6k comments sorted by

View all comments

3.7k

u/CaydeTheCat 15h ago

I was living in Silicon Valley working for a startup...4 years out of college. A college friend of mine on the East Coast woke me up at like 730a Pacific time and told me to turn the TV on to any channel and hung up.

Took my brain a couple minutes to wake up and realize this was for-real real.

986

u/secretprocess 14h ago

I was also four years out of college and working for a startup, but living in Oakland with a bunch of punks and weirdos. I remember one roommate running through the house freaking out and we just thought she was being wacky as usual, until we saw the TV

189

u/CaydeTheCat 14h ago

I was in Sunnyvale but the cost there ended up pushing me down south to Gilroy the next year. Gilroy was very much like the town I grew up in Ohio so I really clicked with it, garlic smell and all. Lol

83

u/owlbi 11h ago

I was in my Marine Corps barracks, 25% of my enlistment done, my dreams of being a high speed badass having subsided to a newfound feeling of lazy independence. I had just worked overnight when this happened.

It was like a bolt of lightning, we were going to war. It wasn't really fear though, I felt pretty righteous. We were American and somebody had just fucked up.

I really miss that feeling of righteousness. Not sure I ever deserved it, but fuck, it did feel good and the case was a lot more believable at the time.

16

u/WrongWorldAgain-7 5h ago

See I was gonna say thank you for your service, but given your last paragraph, I'll settle for a big hug if you want it: đŸ«‚

I can't imagine having your opinion change from that righteousness to more clarity. Thanks for sharing your story. đŸ«Ą

1

u/Gold-Position-8265 1h ago

It was deserved however the leadership of those times were not the right ones holding the trigger.

1

u/Extension-Sundae6894 1h ago

“We were American, and somebody just fucked up”

I couldn’t say it better tbh. USA gets a lot of hate for a lot of things, but no one really wants to learn why we’re #1. Fuck with our country and we will eradicate your whole ass area for 20 continuous years.

‱

u/agcarterism 32m ago

War accomplishes nothing, it's a machine

-9

u/StatisticallySassy17 4h ago

We deserve to feel righteous. Because if it's not us then who.

This coming from a democrat.

4

u/Barium_Salts 3h ago

What do you mean "if it's not us then who"?

Any country that hasn't committed a genocide of it's indigenous population, hasn't used a nuclear bomb, or doesn't currently use concentration camps and slave labor, maybe? Every state actor has done bad things, but the US has more on its conscience than most (especially if we don't hold nations responsible for the actions of previous governments that no longer exist).

2

u/dingalingdongdong 1h ago

No one should feel righteous lashing out the way we did. There's a reason so many people were against the war even in the immediate aftermath of the attacks.

4

u/Deraga07 11h ago

I was in 7th grade and watched it live during school. I still remember that day and probably will not forget it.

3

u/anewfaceinthecrowd 10h ago

Many decades ago I enjoyed a Garlic Ice cream at the Gilroy Garlic Festival.

1

u/CaydeTheCat 10h ago

I thought that was OK. I drew the line at trying the garlic rock candy. No thank you.

1

u/kaysmaleko 7h ago

For real. I was skeptical about the ice cream but they were offering it for free and I was pleasantly surprised.

4

u/Nani_700 11h ago

It's weird to think about this and now every school shooting is just bleh to general public mind's 

1

u/PuttinUpWithPutin 10h ago

I was in Oakland, but a sophomore in high school. When I woke up my dad had his clock radio on, and he said some moron flew into a building in New York. I didn't really get it until I got to school where the TV was on. Then we just watched the TV all day...

200

u/ThisSpaceForRent45 11h ago

I was in LA, hungover as fuck, my roommate knocked on my door and said “wake up, we’re getting fucked by terrorists”

I called my dad and we were on the phone watching the news when the first tower fell. I can still hear the fear in his voice, just a quiet, “Oh my God
 no.” Then we just sat in silence for what seemed like an eternity.

82

u/SuffocatingDensity 10h ago

I had just moved in with new roommates on the first, and had a girl spending the night. My roommate burst into my room without knocking and said, “come out here, you’ve got to see this.”

Under normal circumstances I would’ve been furious, but I could tell something big was happening

58

u/curious-kitten-0 10h ago

It was horrifying to watch, I was in school and the teacher turned on the tvs. They turned them back off after the first tower fell, but we all just kinda moved through the rest of the day in shock.

7

u/NorridAU 5h ago

You guys stayed in school? They sent us home at lunch after they figured we weren’t learning the curriculum that day. Watched the coverage all afternoon. Repeat strike and collapses of the towers. Idn why the news chose that “last time in NYC” vibed recap like it was a sweeps week 2 part story arc, but they did.

3

u/Ordinary-Variety7256 4h ago

I was in school too but I literally don’t even remember if they sent us home anymore. I just remember my first period teacher put the classroom tv on the news and we watched until the second tower fell. My memory of that day after watching that is completely blank.

1

u/curious-kitten-0 2h ago

yea, I concur. I honestly don't remember anything that happened after that.

4

u/Solo_is_dead 4h ago

This is a part of the reason we're so messed up mentally. I remember the Challenger explosion. After we saw it in class, we sat there for a minute realizing the people were killed. Then the teacher turned off the TV, and started our math lesson. No mourning, no therapy, no acknowledgement. Just "oh well, let's move on"

3

u/flappity 3h ago

I remember hearing about the plane hitting the WTC on the way to school idly listening to the radio -- and then they mentioned a second plane hitting. I had very little idea of the ramifications of this at the time as I was like 12? I got to school and they had the TV on showing the towers burning live. We got to watch the towers collapse live, and the entire day (save for a couple short breaks) were just us watching the news and the teachers talking about it.

Some kids got picked back up and went home and didn't come back for a week (as if a small 2 room schoolhouse in the middle of nowhere, Missouri was a prime target for a follow up attack).

1

u/TJ_Rowe 3h ago

I was 12, too. I wasn't allowed to watch the news at home because it "wasn't for children", so I had no context when the RE teacher put it on the screen. I thought it was a film/movie and wouldn't accept assertions to the contrary until the next day, when I guess sufficiently many people I'd met seemed to believe it.

(I think people trying to convince me of things that weren't true was a common way of bullying at the time.)

12

u/The5Virtues 9h ago

When the first tower fell was when I realized how bad it truly was. I was only 14 at the time, I knew it was bad, I knew we were looking at at least a few hundred deaths, but I hadn’t even considered that the buildings would actually collapse.

I thought the planes hit too high, that the worst that might happen was collapse of higher floors. I really didn’t think we would see them just cave in on themselves like it was a planned demolition. When the first one fell I remember I was on AIM with a friend and asked him “Did they just really happen?”

Like, even though we’d been watching it unfold the building’s collapse just felt like it couldn’t be real.

0

u/FarOffImagination 2h ago

If you care about the tragedy I would refrain from using conspiracy theory language like control demolitions.

87

u/wdmartin 11h ago

I was in my last year of college. I had gotten up early to finish some homework -- translating a poem from Latin. It was Horace. One of the Odes. The exact lines were:

Pallida mors pede aequo pulsat

Tabernas pauperum et turris regem

Which I rendered as:

Pale death knocks with impartial foot

At the hovels of the poor and the towers of kings

Then the phone rang and it was my roommate's mother to say "turn on the TV".

I will remember those two lines of Latin until the day I die.

2

u/Fletch71011 2h ago

That's beautiful by the way. You have a great way with words. Thanks for sharing. All I could do that day was go home and sob forever. Everything else seemed irrelevant. I couldn't put a coherent feeling or words to any of it.

1

u/wdmartin 1h ago

Thank you!

56

u/DutchTinCan 9h ago

I'm Dutch, so I just got home from school on a nice summery day, ready to share stories from my second week at middle school as a 13 year old.

Came in cheerful and blabbering to hear my parents just say "sit down and be quiet", just as the news reported tower #2 being hit.

Even in Europe, we all felt the world was about to change.

5

u/Stuzzie 5h ago

Same here: Dutch. Second week. 13 years old. Second tower.
I watched CNN. Crazy.

3

u/justarandomdudeW 3h ago

Overal op de wereld. Dat was oprecht een heftige schok voor de wereld, ookal was het voor de Amerikanen.

99

u/LackingUtility 12h ago

I was a new engineering employee at an NPR station. The director of engineering gave me his credit card and said "go to the mall and buy every TV you can find and then bring them back and hook them up in every room."

It was a weird day. Lot of running cables while people stood around and stared.

5

u/Fallcious 6h ago

Back in the era of CRTs too, so not an easy task.

3

u/strokeluck 5h ago

Upvote for Cathode Ray Tube reference!

Fun fact: the structural integrity is strongest on the screen side, so strong in fact you could bounce it on the screen like a ball and still be ok.

44

u/biscuitsandburritos 12h ago

Freshmen year of college. My roommate introduced me to GoGo with a station running it late night. Fell asleep to it and woke up to what I thought was an Aaliyah tribute morning show as the usual DC morning show hosts were very somber. When I got back to be room post hitting the loo, my roommate tolls me to turn on the tv (13 inch). First tower had been hit. Knock at the door. Hallmate coming back from early morning practice heard a weird report on the radio news and knew we would be up and didn’t want to wake her roommate. We watched the second tower being hit live. Went to class 45 minutes later and then things were cancelled. Watched the towers fall around “lunch” at the cafeteria styled eatery on campus. Drove past the pentagon that night as it was still smoking. Sent friends off to those wars who did not come back or came back missing limbs. Walter Reed was a nightmare. I entered DoD spaces in 2005 and still here.

1

u/thesheepsnameisjeb_ 4h ago

That is so wild. I was in 9th grade math class in Texas. Had no idea what was going on because the school wouldn't let the teachers turn on the tvs or radio. Eventually we were told what happened but i didn't understand the gravity of it until much later.

2

u/biscuitsandburritos 3h ago

The gravity was felt when we saw the first tower on tv but the second impact live told us it was not an accident. And then more planes kept falling


And a lot of my hallmates had family in military. The one who knocked on our door because she didn’t want to wake up her roommate? That roommate’s dad was high up in the military and no one could get in touch with him. I joked he was probably with the president. Yep. He had been pulled for the ghost of Airforce one— only plane besides fighter jets and surveillance— and was with Bush. And that dad later said we never should have gone in the way we did. I still cannot believe Colin Powell lied to us.

8

u/bigbigbutter 11h ago

Same and on PST.  Roomates yelled at me after I woke up. "Terrorists crashed a bunch of planes and knocked down the wtc it's ww3!". Like that was the first thing I heard that day.  Pulled the car over and cried a little on the way to work,  some guy was waving a giant American flag on the side of the highway.  No one knew what to do.

3

u/zzxxccbbvn 11h ago

I saw the towers fall live on TV and I couldn't realize wtf I was looking at. I remember the news having that one zoomed in shot of the building's spire and  watching it just fall. It took a minute to register what just actually happened. It was a wierd day 

2

u/Freddit330 10h ago

I was 5.

2

u/SuffocatingDensity 10h ago

I was living in SF and working in Redwood City and watched the last plane in the country land at SFO

2

u/Steenies 6h ago

I had just started my last year of school in the uk (6th form) and saw the footage in a shop display (Rip Dixons) I didn't really take it in until I remembered my sister worked for the UN in New York. For some reason I thought the UN was based in the WTC and that's when I started. Panicking. Her subway from Brooklyn to Manhattan had been stopped and she had to trek back out along the train tunnel on foot. She was fine.

2

u/LucifersAdv0cate 4h ago

I had just joined the Royal Marines 5 days earlier. When I passed out of training 13 months later I was sent out to Kuwait after just 3 months on the job to prepare for the invasion of Iraq. I was just 21 years old and not even American.

2

u/tonysopranosalive 2h ago

Listening to the ATC archives of that morning, all the calls being made as the situation was communicated up the chain of command
 it was interesting to hear some of their reactions to it being for real for real. Absolute professionals that are always level headed. There’s one guy that sticks out. When he asked “is this real world or an exercise?” and was told no this is real world and he goes: “okay, HEYYYYY, uh lemmie get you over to this person”. Like it wasn’t anything over the top and he really was still being professional but that little trepidation with that “okay, HEY” was enough that you could hear his “oh fuck” realization

2

u/Brewmeiser 2h ago

I was a senior in highschool and both my mom and grandma were set to get on a plane to fly back to Michigan. It all started happenong and while I panicked, my dad wouldn't answer his phone and my mom wouldn't answer her phone. My favorite teacher (aka English) let me sit in her room and use her phone in between classes while I tried to reach anyone on a phone to find out that they were okay. Hours in I found out their plane had been grounded in Colorado and they ended up being stuck in Colorado for a week due to planes not being able to take off. Beyond that just the horror of it all.

The next day they brought all the local elementary schools together to sing The Star Spangled Banner and broadcasted it live. It was so mind numbingly, teeth chattering, blindingly awful... thats what I think about now. Sitting in the auditorium while we had to listen to the worst possible rendition of that song as we grieved.

1

u/EnvironmentalLime464 5h ago

I was in my first year of college and a friend called my dorm freaking out. She had woken me up and my brain just could not process what she was telling me. She was so upset because her mom was in NY near the buildings. My 19 year old not awake brain couldn’t understand why she was so worried about her mom.

I got off the phone and was awake at that point. Kinda hard to go back to sleep after hearing your friend crying. So I turned on the TV just in time to see the second plane hit. I realized then why she was freaking out.

1

u/summonerofrain 3h ago

So I was born after this. What is it that made this such a massive deal?

1

u/dingalingdongdong 1h ago

It was the largest foreign attack on US soil since becoming a country. It was worse than most single-day casualty tolls of the civil war, even (think a couple days of the battle of Antietam surpassed it), it was deadlier than the Pearl Harbor attacks that finally pushed us into WWII.

Being as geographically isolated as we are (relatively) and as military-minded as we are the US just doesn't get attacked at home hardly ever. Such a brazen and deadly attack was therefore shocking - not just to us, but to people watching around the world who knew right away the fallout would involve a lot of them.

‱

u/summonerofrain 59m ago

Oh damn. Thanks for explaining!

1

u/max_465 2h ago

Me too. Well, 15 years out of college.

1

u/Legitimate-Barber841 1h ago

My mom was at a meeting in dc my uncle was late for a meeting in the north tower and my dad was in kuwait and my grandpa was on a flight from Switzerland to new york for a meeting with Phillip morris America